The books that shaped me: Will edition

Get to know my husband and Modern Mrs Darcy team member Will Bogel through the books that influenced him over the years.

When I think back on my childhood, I remember reading a lot. Books were always around the house, but I especially remember really working hard at the library summer reading program. I have great memories of Frog and Toad and choose-your-own-adventure books. But like many teenage boys, I didn’t keep up the habit as much when I entered high school. I was surprised to realize so many of the books that shaped me came from that same period. 

I had great reading role models growing up. My dad was a huge reader. We always had books at home for all ages and genres and interests, from illustrated classics to the hardback classics that came in those boxes from some mail order subscription. I also had two friends that were great about sharing books with me. I think this led to me being pretty open to a strong recommendation. As a result, my current reading life includes a lot of variety.  

Nowadays I gravitate towards outdoorsy books, gritty mysteries, and nerdy nonfiction. Looking back, I see the origins of those preferences in the books I’m sharing with you today. However, if someone I trust recommends it to me, I’ll also read literary fiction, sci-fi, and the occasional romance or fantasy.

Most of the books I’m sharing today are genre-specific, getting at the roots of my love of a particular type of book. There are also some turning-point books that changed my view of what reading could be and how I thought about my reading life. For that, I’m thankful for these books that shaped me.

The Books That Shaped Will

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Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead

Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead

Author: Tom Stoppard
I can't recall if this play was assigned in the same English class as Hamlet or recommended by a nerdy friend with a built-in bookshelf in his closet. However I came to it, this work of wit and humor with a touch of philosophy spoke to my angsty, faux-intellectual teen self. A retelling of Hamlet where Rosencrantz and Guildenstern (minor characters in the play) take center stage, this unusual vantage point validated my confusion around what happened in Hamlet. I especially appreciated the jester-like qualities of Rosencrantz and Guildenstern who also wonder what is happening with all of the main characters. I still look for that combination of smart and silly both in books and movies. (I must credit that same friend with introducing me to Where Is Joe Merchant by Jimmy Buffet with its similar wit, humor, and everyman's wisdom.) More info →
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The Firm

The Firm

Author: John Grisham
In What Should I Read Next #61: When the plot comes full circle..., I shared about the time I just. had. to. finish. The Firm. Mitch McDeer (played by Tom Cruise in the movie) is out to become the youngest partner at his Memphis firm, but his first day on the job he attends the funeral of two would-be colleagues who died in a scuba diving accident. As he witneses more and more "coincidences," Mitch starts to wonder what’s really going on at work and then gets approached by the FBI to help them gather evidence against his firm that’s actually a front for the Morolto crime family. Things are quiet and kind of creepy for three hundrediish pages before the firm finds out Mitch is working with the Feds. Then the book ends in what feels like a literal foot chase over the last 100 pages (that I read in one sitting). I still love a propulsive plot, whether in a legal thriller, spy novel, or mystery. As a bit of a slow reader, I love finding a book that keeps me engaged and eager to keep reading. More info →
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Raise the Titanic! (Dirk Pitt Adventure #4)

Raise the Titanic! (Dirk Pitt Adventure #4)

Author: Clive Cussler
Dirk Pitt was the first action hero I spent any significant time with. He's a Jason Bourne–Indiana Jones–MacGyver type with the slightly too memorably unique name. This is the fourth book in this adventure series, but it’s the one that really sticks with me. The US government is after a precious mineral thought to only exist in any significant quantity aboard the RMS Titanic. They task Pitt and his crew with finding it, literally raising the massive ship to the surface and then towing it to shore to search for the missing mineral (based on current theories of the wreck since this was a decade before the ship was actually found). Along the way, there’s double crossing, international intrigue, and danger on the high seas. I still like a too-good-to-be-true hero in a long-running series that I can fall back on any time I'm feeling a bit stuck in my reading life. I'm all caught up on the Cork O'Conner series but I’m still following along with Alex Carter, Anna Pigeon, Joe Pickett, and Walt Longmire. More info →
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Rogue Warrior

Rogue Warrior

I'm not sure if this is the first Navy SEAL memoir but it was definitely the first I read. Marcinko is brash and full of himself but he's definitely got the stories to back it up. During the Vietnam War, he led the most successful SEAL operation in the Mekong Delta and ran a rescue mission during the Tet Offensive, then followed up his deployments by advising on the Iran hostage crisis and was later named the first commanding officer of SEAL Team Six, the top counter-terrorist fighting force. While the general vibe of these types of memoirs is “let me amaze you by how tough I am,” I tend to gravitate towards memoirs and military histories that go beyond that. Some notable mentions from the past few years include Fearlessby Eric Blehm, Unbecomingby Anuradha Bhagwati, Black Hawk Down by Mark Bowden, and Where Men Win Glory by Jon Krakauer. More info →
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The Tragedy of Hamlet, Prince of Denmark

The Tragedy of Hamlet, Prince of Denmark

Thank you to that one English teacher who let me come in during his free period and admit that I was completely lost. This family drama had too much palace intrigue and madness for me to follow. I still remember the line my teacher explained that made it all click for me—it being Hamlet, Shakespeare, and the idea that books might be saying more than what's right there on the page: "I am but mad north-north-west. When the wind is southerly, I know a hawk from a handsaw." More info →
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Jurassic Park

Jurassic Park

What a page-turner! This eco-thriller is one of the first books that I specifically remember the ending of. What a surprise to think, “whoa, that's more than I bargained for.” I think most people are familiar with the story and the way scientific hubris creates chaos (or maybe can’t overcome chaos) courtesy of the film franchise. But the book includes a small nugget (maybe an epilogue) that’s not included in the movie. While it doesn’t add much to the plot, I remember feeling like it cast a different feel over the whole book. I still gravitate towards books with these very science-y themes in science fiction, like Crichton’s books The Andromeda Strain and Westworld, and even non-fiction books, like The Demon in the Freezer by Richard Preston and Worm by Mark Bowden. More info →
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What books have shaped you? Have you read any of these? Please tell us in the comments section!

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About the author

Will Bogel is our What Should I Read Next Executive Producer. His go-to genres are outdoorsy books and gritty mysteries.

22 comments

  1. Maura says:

    This is awesome! Is Will on Goodreads? I’d love to keep hearing his recommendations. My husband is a fairly new reader, and always asking me to help him find books.

    • Will says:

      Unfortunately I’m not on Goodreads. About the only place I talk books publicly is our Team Best Books event and the occasional podcast appearance. You could point him to the podcast, especially if you have a bit of an idea of what he likes and cherry picked some episodes for him.

  2. Melissa says:

    I read Rosencrantz and Guildenstern in high school too and I loved it! Years later I was able to see a professional performance of Hamlet at a matinée and then Rosencrantz and Guildenstern at night. The same actors played the same roles in each production, but with wildly playful and hilarious differences. It was excellent!

  3. Katy Hichborn says:

    I LOVE your reading list! Sometimes I think I’m not a “real girl”! LOL Five children and 18 grandchildren would disabuse anyone of that idea rather quickly! However, growing up with childhood heroes Robin Hood and Sherlock Holmes did not prepare me for most female reading circles. A career as a U.S. Navy Officer probably didn’t either, and you can see why I’d have a soft spot for military thrillers and SEALS in particular. I think I may have everything Clancy and Custler wrote, including their non-fiction.

    I’m not always living the wild life vicariously, however. One of my favorite books has always been Lindbergh’s Gift From the Sea.

  4. Allison says:

    Thank you so much Will. I’ve already recommended “Rogue Warrior” to my husband, and noticed the other “honorable mentions” alongside that book. Good for Christmas ideas. Just a great post!!

  5. Susan says:

    I recommend trying the CJ Box novels ~ outdoorsy and great character development set in mystery and crime solving.

    • Will says:

      Susan, I’m sorry to say I’ve read 5 or 6 CJ Box books and I’m not sure I like the character development of Joe Pickett. I enjoyed his writing a lot and the stories, but the further I got into the series the more I questioned whether I liked Joe.

  6. Sandy Hoenecke says:

    I’ve read Jurassic Park and The Firm. A Time to Kill will always be my favourite of Grisham’s. As a teenager, I recall my grandfather being worried about my reading choices when he saw me reading The Twelve Caesars by Robert Graves. Did it have an huge impact on me? Probably not other than I think it was the first non-fiction I had read. The one book that did and continues to have an impact is Johnny Got His Gun by Dalton Trumbo. It gave me the underpinnings to become an empathetic nurse and conflict resister.

  7. Helene M Watt says:

    Great list. I would recommend the 2 Kevin Fedarko books, The Emerald Mile & my favorite book of 2024. A Walk in the Park.
    Also a couple of submarine books, The Terrible Hours by Peter Maas and Blind Man’s Bluff by Sherry Sontag & Christopher Drew with Annette Lawrence Drew.
    Happy adventures.

  8. Kitty Balay says:

    Will- thank for your list! I wonder if you (or anyone) can give me a recommendation: my boyfriend is going to Switzerland. He loves hiking, being outdoors, adventure, and the same kind of books as you. I’d love to give him a book that enhances his trip!

    • Will says:

      Eiger Dreams for sure! Although I will admit it’s one of the few Jon Krakauer books I haven’t gotten to yet. Not about the Eiger specifically but more mountaineering in general. In a totally different vein The Accident by Chris Pavone takes his familiar European spy stories to Zurich.

  9. Kelli Roberts says:

    Love that you read Anna Pigeon! I read the first few in the series years ago and revisited the first one last year. I’m looking forward to continuing! Have you read Dead Money by Jakob Kerr? It had the same feel as The Firm for me, set in the tech world of the Bay Area.

    • Will says:

      I’ve got to thank Holly on our team for introducing me to Anna Pigeon. I’ve not read or even heard of Dead Money, so thanks for that recommendation, Kelli.

  10. Jennifer says:

    I love this list. I read a lot of these books ages ago, but they were some of the first real non school related reading I’d ever done so I remember them fondly.

  11. Suzy says:

    If you were a fan of Hunt for Red October and got into submarine books, I recommend TWO books with the title Typhoon—one is by Mark Joseph (and he also wrote To Kill the Potemkin) and the other is by Robin White. Both are good! I am also a fan of the Horatio Hornblower books, as well as the Master and Commander series by Patrick O’Brian. If you are at all into literary sea adventures, this is for you!

  12. Bob says:

    Thanks for letting Will share his formative books. I’m with him on The Firm and Jurassic Park and definitely need to challenge myself with a reread of Hamlet. Speaking of The Firm, it was Grisham’s second novel but the one that brought him fame (and eventually fortune). His first was A Time to Kill, which was rereleased after The Firm became so popular. It too became a blockbuster and remains my favorite Grisham book.

  13. Love reading your list, Will! I am glad you found Anna Pigeon… As a former Park Ranger, I loved how she captures some of the fine nuances of ranger life, along with unputdownable plot lines !

  14. Dawn Bahr says:

    I remember staying up all night and reading The Firm in the 1990s. I loved the book and the movie. I think there is a Netflix movie that is a sequel? I need to look that up.

  15. Marilyn says:

    Books of any type that were historical or gave you a view into the past, & set in a location other than the US, (but not always). It could be Little Women to James Michener, Thomas Hardy, Anne Frank, Erik Larson or Mary Stewart’s Crystal Cave series. I’ve loved discovering narrative non-fiction, they can be page-turners. I suggest “Challenger,” “The Art Thief” & “Killers of the Flower Moon” as great examples of this genre.

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