In Which My 7-Year-Old Tells Me How to Live My Life. (And How You Should Live Yours.)

My 7-year-old has decided she might want to be a writer when she grows up, so she’s been practicing. In fact, she’s written a book, and she’s given me permission to share it with you here today.

This little book and its contents are all hers–no prompts from me. It’s very clear to me what inspired some of these pages; I have no idea about some of the others.

I hope you enjoy her book. Now I need to go order her some more Pilot G-2s and her own copy of Emily of New Moon.

Not everyone is a friend so don’t be sad when you make a friend then find out she is the wrong kind of person.

You cannot trust everyone so don't be confused when somebody says something that isn't true.

You cannot trust everyone so don’t be confused when somebody says something that isn’t true.

If you're alone make a friend.

If you’re alone make a friend.

If you do not have enough money get a job.

If you do not have enough money get a job.

If your friend moves away she can still be your friend.

If your friend moves away she can still be your friend.

If there is not a place where you can work get a job at home.

If there is not a place where you can work get a job at home.

If you’re in a race and you know you can’t win don’t cheat just try your best.

If your friend did something mean don't be mean to her.

If your friend did something mean don’t be mean to her.

If you’re bored and you can’t find anything to do play with a brother or sister.

If a bully comes by your house go inside.

If a bully comes by your house go inside.

If you want to sew and don't have a pattern don't use one be creative.

If you want to sew and don’t have a pattern don’t use one be creative.

What’s a hard truth you learned when you were young?

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Comments

  1. I love this book! I am looking forward to reading more from this young author! Such good advice for any age group!

  2. This is awesome! Such wisdom from such a young one. And her handwriting is so neat. :-)

  3. Such wisdom for a young lady! It is amazing the lessons they learn so early! I taught second grade for 8 years and it sounds like she would have been a joy to have in class! Thanks for sharing!

  4. Move over Mrs. Darcy!

    Oh. my. heavens.

    Tears in my eyes — THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!!

    What a great Mama you must be to produce such an insightful child. LOVE!!!

  5. What a smart young lady. You must be proud of her.

  6. I’m very tempted to write in your daughter as my vote for President. This is how we should all live our lives – you are obviously a fabulous mom – be proud!!!

  7. Oh my goodness. I think I need her to guest post for my wisdom series :) That was precious!

  8. Sarah, figuring out these things now is giving you a great start on a great life. Way to go! (And, I didn’t need your mom’s typed captions — I could read your handwriting just fine.) I look forward to reading more of your work sometime.

    Love,
    Mrs. Biesecker

  9. “Out of the mouths of babes.” That was fabulous! I think you definitely have a young authoress in the making. :) I’m looking forward to following her career. I love the simple truths that we all need to be reminded of, and the touch of humor. She also has great handwriting and spelling for someone so young. You should be very proud!

  10. I love this! You have instilled great values into your children.

  11. I think an agent should snap her up quick!

  12. Like mother, like daughter ;-)

  13. Out of the mouths of babes! I am always amazed at the wisdom of children (I have one close that that age too). Your daughter writes beautifully. What great spirit, spunk and insight!

  14. Hard truth: that calling someone a “friend” doesn’t mean they’ll always act like one.

  15. How perfectly lovely! So sweet! And my son said just this morning after drawing: “Well, it’s not very beautiful, but I tried. And If I keep trying I will get better.” I wish I could learn that… :-)

  16. Sarah is the cutest! Next time I visit, we’re going to have to schedule some book writing time. :)

  17. Love this, Anne! So sweet. And my goodness, her handwriting is fantastic!

  18. this moved me deeply.

  19. Oh my! She is wise beyond her years. That is the sweetest thing. Looks like she’s going to take after her momma and be a writer, indeed.

  20. I love the things kids think, say and write. Many times I feel like they’re wiser than we are. :) No wonder Jesus tells us to become like little children.

  21. LOVE this! I’m definitely going to share Sarah’s “book” with Libby – she’ll love it! It’s really too bad we don’t live just streets apart anymore…I just know Libby and Sarah would have a blast together – two little bookworms! :) Sarah is truly insightful for her age. You must be so proud!

  22. Karina Elizabeth says:

    I love this. It’s amazing that none of this changes as you get older!!

  23. I wish this were a big poster that I could frame and hang in my office. I could use looking at this every day!

  24. “If you want to sew and don’t have a pattern, don’t use one, be creative”

    What an excellent metaphor for life. A wise girl you have here!

  25. So precious! This is a keeper to bring out and show her when she is in her in her adult years.

  26. What a lovely piece of writing. I hope you share more as you can. Wonderful words that some people do not understand their entire lives.

    Thanks for sharing Sarah and Anne.

  27. So, so sweet. And perfectly timed. I’m going to show this to my 6-year-old who’s currently learning some hard lessons about friendship. Well done, Sarah!

  28. This is great! What a wise little seven-year-old. =) And you earned major points with me by even knowing what “Emily of New Moon”– my favourite book series– is.

  29. I am so laughing about the if-you-need-money-get-a-job one. A few weeks ago on my blog we went all over the place about that family earning $460/week, and finally one of my male readers noted that the guy needed a different job. Your daughter likewise sums it up pretty succinctly!

  30. This is so sweet and insightful. These are hard truths to learn, but it seems so simple when shared by a child without all of our grown-up issues thrown in there to complicate things.

  31. So lovely, what a clever little girl! This advice should be taken on by both adults and children, you’ve obviously taught her well! X

  32. Fantastic, what a lovely child- she will go along way with that advice!

  33. Amazing advice!! I love the one about a bully coming to your house. And about working from home!! Genius!

  34. Love it! You have an amazing girl. Please tell her how much we randoms appreciate her wise book.

  35. You’ve got one smart kid there, Anne! :) She gives great advice!

  36. Loved this so much! If the rest of America followed this advice we would be in a much better place! Tell her to run for president one day!

  37. I like this kid…. She’s got a good head on her shoulders – good stuff. :o )

  38. Best book ever! Thanks Stumbleupon. lol. Seriously, you need to get some illustrations going with this and publish this bad boy.

  39. This girl is so very sweet!

    I’m looking for a particular link for for Emma. She likes the page about about a friend moving away!

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