Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is …

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is …

Last fall I had too much going on. Some would call it an extremely productive season, in the sense that on any given day I was checking off lots of boxes on a long to-do list. I got a lot done.

But it wasn’t my favorite way to operate. I felt like a poorly calibrated machine, where the gears are jammed together too tightly for anything to actually move. It works, technically, but it’s a grind.

I don’t like to think of myself as a machine, especially a poorly calibrated one.

After being in a season that was too full, the past month has felt gloriously spacious in comparison. The whole experience has taught (re-taught) me the power of margin. Instead of being always in doing mode, now I feel like I can think.

And what I’m finding—as I sink into a season where I’m intentionally taking walks with no headphones, and going to the bookstore just because, is that these intentionally unproductive hours are actually opening the door to all kinds of good things.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do doesn’t look remotely productive. Like you could maybe

  1. Walk the dog,
  2. read a book,
  3. flip through a cookbook,
  4. chat with a neighbor,
  5. phone a friend, preferably an old friend you haven’t talked to in way too long.
  6. Go for a run
  7. or a bike ride, and
  8. stretch.
  9. Make an extra cup of coffee
  10. or tea
  11. and sit
  12. or maybe walk, with no headphones
  13. and think.
  14. Find a park bench, or swing,
  15. or your most comfy sofa, and
  16. do nothing at all. And when you’ve had enough nothing, you might
  17. Go to a bookstore and look at every single blessed title on the hardcover fiction shelves.
  18. (or maybe the mysteries)
  19. or maybe the thrift shop instead, because you know what they say about one woman’s junk.
  20. Or Target, if that’s more your style (or you’re out of aluminum foil), but make sure you go down every aisle (or at least the fun ones).

and then, when you’re done goofing off, with your walks and your books and your friends and your lazing, you may find that the idea is there, that the next step is clear, that the problem you were puzzling over about your work or your kids or your wardrobe solved itself when you weren’t looking.

Are there days when I don’t have (or perhaps don’t make?) the time for a nice long walk with the dog? Absolutely. But too many of those days strung together and the whole thing starts to feel like a grind instead of a good thing. And if a walk or a thrift shop or just some time on the couch can keep things humming along? I’ll take it.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on your unexpectedly productive hours in comments. 

P.S. That time when I told you about sitting on the couch and doing nothing, the spiritual discipline of the long walk, and the best book you’ve never heard of on the daily grind.

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    • Katy says:

      It is a relief that others can relate to this as well as me ! I think I was trying to force too much out of too little. I have taken some time out and not only am I enjoying my work again, but I can see a way through the fog! Thanks for the list – on point as usual.

  1. Laura Nelson says:

    Loved this post. As women, we are so programmed to push ourselves to do, and then do more. I’m retired and still pushing to do more. I too am working on taking time for me. My times are quilting, or just cutting our square of fabric. But, yes, I too get caught in this trap too easily and hate it.

    • Terry says:

      I am so glad to read this. My husband and I are moving into our retirement (not entirely voluntarily) and while we both still work part-time, it is nothing like what we did before. I’m having a hard time making the shift. Not because I don’t WANT to but maybe because I don’t know HOW.

  2. Betsy says:

    Deep Work, by Cal Newport, is an excellent book that discusses this very thing. Thanks for this post – I’m reading the book right now, and the post is excellent validation. I can’t recommend this book enough.

  3. Jess says:

    Lovely list. This has been one of those weeks (months?) where my brain feels overwhelmed and overworked, even though I’m barely getting anything done. Giving myself the freedom and the time to rest would probably help me out of this funk – but sometimes it’s just tough to tell yourself it’s okay to do that!

  4. Theresa says:

    Great ideas and list. I am more a doer and my husband has always taken time to just relax and not be productive. Sometimes he takes what he calls a “mental health day,” which looks like a lot of nothing, but nourishes and refreshes his soul. I used to think he was being lazy, but now I am joining him, or taken my own not so productive days.

  5. Rose Booth says:

    Love this! Every year I pick a word for the year. No resolutions because I break them in 30 days. My word this year is Renewal. I take at least one full day a month where I take time to renew myself emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. My phone is used only for phone things – calls and texts – and no social media at all. January has already shaped up to be a better month because of this!

  6. Shawna says:

    Clearance shopping! I LOVE after Christmas clearance shopping. Not the crazy days right after Christmas but the end of January meandering kind. Where the clearance is 60% off and above and the inventory is whittled down so that it’s not overwhelming. I buy most all of my friend gifts and relative gifts right now!

  7. Amanda says:

    I walk every morning — rain or shine. Some people need their morning coffee in order to function; I need my morning walk. It’s my time to wake up and think. (I get really cranky if my walk is cut short or, if when I’m out of town, I don’t have access to a treadmill or easy and safe outdoor route.) No headphones, no conversations with friends, and, for a good portion of the year, no daylight. Some of my best thoughts happen during that half hour. Other days, it’s more mundane like deciding what to wear to work. But regardless of the thoughts in my head, it’s the meditative walk that sets me up for the day.

  8. Anna says:

    After a week of near breakdowns and feeling like a fish out of water in a world of super-teachers while I gasp for breath in between classes, this list brought happy tears to my eyes. I read it out loud to my husband as we commiserated about the week and planned (schemed?) a “productive” weekend (including a long run while listening to your podcast) 🙂

  9. Beira says:

    Yes! I do these things and I can be a more settled mother, and wife, and friend. It’s a lovely form of self-care and showing kindness to ourselves that we women need to embrace more. Thank you for the reminder!

  10. Beth says:

    This is so true! I’ve been pushing myself pretty hard at my new job and this week I realized I need to spend more time doing this kind of stuff or I’m going to burn out. Thursday when I got to work (early, of course) I spent an hour mind mapping and journaling silly stuff I’ve had rolling around in my head. My spring wardrobe, monthly menu plan/ideas, decorating ideas, etc.. It felt like a waste of time but afterwards I was more relaxed and able to focus on cranking out work.

  11. Jessi says:

    Ooo thank you! It is far too easy for me to push push push, rather than enjoy life. I walked out of church this afternoon slowly, happily, knowing I have an afternoon of NOTHING ahead of me. And it struck me, maybe that’s how I’m meant to live – slowly, enjoying the moments, rather than pushing for bigger Things and a sense of accomplishment.

  12. Colleen Higgs says:

    Oh, Anne, I’ve been writing about this very thing this week! We live in rural Argentina where it is summer. And it is hot. Sitting by the river is the thing to do in the heat of the afternoon, but that lasts for hours! I get frustrated at how unproductive I feel, but sometimes the best thing you can do is to be still, stay cool, conserve energy, and do it together.

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